Emotion Over Logic: Why Conflicts Defy Reason
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Meet Dave, a certified civil and family court mediator with extensive experience in resolving conflicts.
Meet Dave, a certified civil and family court mediator with extensive experience in resolving conflicts.
Key Insight:
Conflicts are often less about the facts of the case and more about the personalities and temperaments of the parties involved.
Conflicts are often less about the facts of the case and more about the personalities and temperaments of the parties involved.
Highlights from Psychology Today Article:
- Relationships and conflicts often stem from differences in temperament, attitude, and psychology.
- Common dynamics include one person being passive while the other is outgoing, or one prioritizing pride and principle while the other avoids conflict.
Role of a Mediator:
- Acts as a neutral "firewall" between parties to manage temperaments and emotions.
- Helps both sides recognize their compatibility and move past emotional barriers.
Human Emotions vs. Logic:
- While logic and reason should guide decisions, emotions often play a larger role in conflicts and relationships.
Benefits of Mediation:
- A trained mediator can detangle emotional issues and de-escalate tension.
- Encourages mutual respect and understanding to prevent future conflicts.
Real-Life Examples:
- Minor issues, like leaving the cap off the toothpaste or the toilet seat up, can symbolize deeper emotional needs such as respect and recognition.
Call to Action:
If you're stuck in a personal or business relationship, lawsuit, or other conflict, consider consulting a neutral third party.
If you're stuck in a personal or business relationship, lawsuit, or other conflict, consider consulting a neutral third party.
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